Today was beautiful.
It's amazing how a little bit of warmth after a long winter can make you forget about all your stresses and cause you to lay outside not doing a thing except enjoy good company.
Good company...
what is it about some people that draws you to them like a fly to a light
They have a certain energy that is comfortable and inviting and you just want to be around them whenever you can.
I'm not talking about a personal attraction, but just a general joy of being around a person. Some people just have it - some people are that energy.
And then there are people that you personally enjoy being around. Not everyone sees what you see in this person. Maybe they are a good friend, maybe they are a lover, either way, you have seen the hidden energy in that person and learned how to enjoy it on your own.
Is this relationship better than the first?
Is one more special than the other?
I don't know if that is even a fair question to ask.
All I know is that there are certain people in my life that I get a thrill out of being with. Certain friends that I have such an important or unique attachment to that being with them is different than being with anyone else. It's funny, though, because many of these people don't hold as important a position in my life as they used to, and there are many very important people in my life now that don't give me that thrill. This doesn't lessen my love for them in any way - conversing with them is just different, more subdued and pleasant even. More regular and soothing perhaps.
So which are better? neither I suppose. both are necessary, both have places in my life. Both have purposes. Both are good.
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